After my last post I had a friend comment how happy she was for us that our transition to two littles was going smoothly in the bedtime category. Oops! I guess my relative silence on the matter of the sleep transition followed by a glowing review of our dear daughter’s sleeping habits may have been a little misleading.
It’s so easy in the blog world to read all of those rosy details we bloggers like to announce on a regular basis and to slip into thinking that our favorite bloggers’ lives are full of shiny details complete with sunshine and a bouquet of fresh roses. (Not that I claim to be anyone’s favorite blogger… but maybe one day…)
But, truly, that is not the case. Alas, for every shiny detail there are hundreds of not-so-pretty ones I just happen to run out of time for at the end of my posts. So today (to be fair) I am going to dedicate an entire post to all of those nitty gritty details I would rather leave out…
The transition from one to two was easier than expected,...
“Should you go check on her?” My dear husband asked nervously after about three minutes.
You see… our beautiful, nearly two and a half year old, daughter was upstairs all by herself. Not making a sound. I had just come downstairs after trying to put her to sleep. We did our bedtime routine, as usual, and I laid down to nurse her to sleep… just as I had hundreds of nights before.
Evangeline has nursed to sleep since she was a newborn. There have been few instances that Daddy has put her down, or the car… but on her own? Never. Not until three nights ago. She wasn’t falling to sleep nursing, and her new brother downstairs needed his Mommy. So what’s a girl to do? I told her good night and that when she was ready to go to sleep I would come back up… and then I left.
I quickly nursed Stephen in anticipation of her calling for me. We waited… and waited… and waited… but all we heard was the sweet sound of sleep. Nothing. After about ten minutes a m...
I have been waiting all day for my dear hubby to get home so we can try our first ever batch of Kombucha Tea!! I have been slaving over it for a week… well ok, really I did a tiny bit of work one day and it has been fermenting for a week Nevertheless I still feel SUPER excited to taste the fruits of my labor and patience.
What, you wanted to hear how it tastes? Hubby isn’t home yet!! I still have to wait another hour.
You’ll have to come back then to find out! I just wanted you to be in suspense with me
Come back in an hour for the update!!!
UPDATE: And the moment we’ve all been waiting for…. was the Kombucha any good??
I caught Jake’s initial reaction on camera:
The picture may be a little misleading. I neglected to tell him it would be a little fizzy! It’s got a nice, light carbonation to it. Which, after the initial shock, Jake said helped the tea a lot actually. He mentioned that it smelled a little like beer… and when I told him it has a tiny a...
So, at the beginning of the year I posted all of my resolutions and promised that I’d keep you updated on the progress. Umm… sorry about that. So, in the spirit of doing what I say I’m going to do – here’s an update!
Post a Series on Headcoverings… Haha… haha… ha. Ahem. I have been working on this just about as often as I’ve been working on my other blog posts… if that tells you anything… Although, I did read a wonderful blog post on the topic recently which I would highly recommend. There, now you have something thoughtful to read while I drag my feet. I do feel better, thank you for asking.
Clean the Kitchen and do the laundry – Every Day… Actually, progress in this resolution is the reason why I’m blogging today! I finally got myself into a routine after the craziness of March. I have a loose schedule I have been working from this week and it’s going very well! Today is the second day in a row I’ve done EVERYTHING I planned to do – and I have...
I have had a few questions about our Tooth Healing Diet, so I decided to write a catch-up post clarifying some things and adding in some information that I sorta kinda… forgot.
A friend was concerned that we weren’t eating whole grains anymore. We are still eating grains, whole grains even. What we are doing is transitioning from whole grains processed by factories that give little or no thought to the importance of preparation in this particular food group. Instead, I will be making most breads and grains at home. We will also be avoiding whole grains that include the bran in most cases, like oats, since the bran contains the highest amount of phytates in the grain.
The problem with the whole grain bread in the stores is that, because they have not been prepared as nature intended them to be, they actually carry anti-nutrients which nullify all those other great nutrients you could be getting. Eating white bread is like eating empty calories, since the parts of the grain with the most n...
It’s very cold here… I don’t appreciate it too much. I have been lethargic for two days; I could lay in bed all day long and still be tired. I don’t appreciate that either. But some weeks are just like that I suppose. I have a lot I could talk about, there’s so much going on. I am working on Evie’s basic homeschool outline for the next two years, and I’m reading lots of children’s books to preview them for her. I realized last week that we have hardly any quality children’s books in our library… and I think that should be amended.
I just finished reading J.M. Barrie’s “Peter Pan”. And guess what? I cried at the end! Ugh! My hormones are driving me insane… I don’t know if any of you have ever read the book, but the end isn’t really terribly sad. Normally something that would make me go “Aww”, shrug my shoulders and move on with my day… but no. I had to cry. Evie looked at me like “What on earth is wrong with...
This is my last official post in the Ecological Breastfeeding Series, although I will finish it all up with a Q&A Session. Start at Part I if you haven't read the rest of the series yet.
We have two more standards to discuss today and these, very much like my last post, are closely related. As always I will discuss what these standards mean, and give you an overview of how it looks in our house, along with some commentary and bunny trails along the way.
Ready? Let’s get to it!
Standard #6: Nurse frequently day and night, and avoid schedules
Nursing frequently is more or less self-explanatory, although it also can be subjective. Newborns nurse frequently, but as babies get older they nurse less often. My daughter (almost 2) nurses frequently, for her age. She nurses through the night, when waking up or going down for a nap, when she’s grumpy, sad, upset, tired, etc. Sometimes she nurses because she’s thirsty and other times just because I think she feels like it. If I had...
In deciding what to write about today I thought I would pick from one of my Old Years Resolutions and go into more detail, since I did promise that after all… and scrolling through I found my favorite one: Have A Baby!!
So yup, this post is all about Baby Mueller #2. Yesterday I had my first prenatal appointment, and it went fabulously! When Jake and I were expecting our first, we talked extensively about care options.
I knew I did NOT want a hospital birth; I wanted to avoid that like the plague. Jake was fine with a midwife, but he was not completely comfortable with a home birth. Unfortunately, there were no birth centers in the area at that time, so hospital or home birth were our only options. We decided to interview a few midwives and see how we felt after that.
We did find a midwife we loved, she was a Certified Nurse Midwife, which made Jake feel much more comfortable, and she was able to answer all his questions about what she would do in difficult birt...
I know mothers who follow all of the ecological breastfeeding standards except the two that we are going to talk about today. And guess what? They don’t benefit from the same blessings that following the entire plan give. Of course, following five of these principles rather than none is definitely a good thing, but you and your child are still missing out on ecological breastfeeding and the gifts it can give your family.
So, I ask that today you keep an open mind. Don’t immediately disregard this phenomenal method of parenting your baby until you have heard all the facts. I know that many people will read the next two standards and think “There’s no way I’m ever doing that.” But just wait, make an informed decision; you owe it not only to your child but to yourself as well.
Standard #4: Sleep with your baby for night feedings.
Like I promised… I am finally getting around to Part III of my Ecological Breastfeeding Series. If you haven’t yet, read Part I and Part II first.
Today I wanted to talk about the 2nd and 3rd Standards of Ecological Breastfeeding.
Standard #2: Pacify or comfort your baby at your breasts.
Some people may be surprised to find that nursing is not just for nutrition. Babies are naturally comforted by nursing. The sucking motion helps to relieve tension, and the closeness of the baby to his mother encourages a feeling of safety. Some may already know this but think that breastfeeding for comfort is dangerous, or a bad habit, and that you should only feed your child when he is hungry.
There are some misconceptions about this and, I think, it is mostly confusion caused by the widespread use of bottles as a substitute for a mother’s breast. One of the biggest concerns is that if you nurse for comfort your child will learn that eating is for comfort, which will lead...